Today's topic: Loyalty

Evening all..even though it feels like morning to me. Waking up at 4 in the afternoon is enlightening, I must say. I'm def. enjoying this BLOG contraption quite a bit,ridiculous I took so long to get on it. Mike provided me with the topic for today, which is Loyalty. What is it? What if you don't have it? How do you acquire it? Mike suggested that its a choice, a relationship all in itself. One that has to be in place before you engage in relationships with others. Loyalty to me, is the quality of being faithful to a goal or thing. By faithful I mean holding up any responsibilities they choose to take on, and promoting an environment of ease and trust. Respect is the basis for these things. It's important to know what your partner holds as ideal in their mind and talk with them about it. If your significant other has high hopes for you and you fall short, he/she may not be able to express it, or want to. This will lead to deeply held resentment that fuels arguments about the dumbest things(I WANT JELLY IN THE HOUSE STAT !). Silly, but those dumb arguments will frustrate you two and keep you from ever dealing with the real issue. Talk together, let each other know what you HONESTLY want,even the shit you think "she/he'd never do". Quit being a pussy, your relationship is at stake. What's more important, your pride or your relationship? Doing this will build respect on both sides. The more you talk like this the more loyalty will develop between you two. You'll both know this without doubt and it'll provide a real sense of security. Now, Dawn should be home shortly and im going to stuff my face and play MAG =D pz. Hope something was learned here.